Sunday, April 06, 2008
Food for thoughtEveryone wants this, everyone wants that, but if it's only one party sparing a thought or think in the shoes for another, what will happen to the other half? There's no perfection, but it's up to us to make it better and a better future. It has to be mutual.
We all need the same thing too. the thing that everyone yearns for. boys and girls, guys and women all want the same thing. and that is other party, friends and family has to do things that you want. instead of making them think and spare a thought for yourself. it has to be mutual.
We have to constantly remember that the world does not only consist of only you as an individual, but there's so many millions more around us.
Other than thinking about what you want, expecting what you need and receiving what you wanted, and what you always get, reduce your pace, stop and check on the other person whether he/she gets what they want or spare a thought for them.
It cannot always be about yourself, or one person. start writing a story for both (:
- As a boyfriend, it should not be just what i expect of a girlfriend, it should include 'how will my girlfriend feel, or what can i do for my girlfriend.'
- As a girlfriend, it should not be just what i expect of a boyfriend, it should include 'how will my boyfriend feel, or what can i do for my boyfriend.'
- As a friend, it should not be what i want, and it should also be what they want
- As a family/parent/child, it should not be what you always get, instead it should be do what will make them happier.
- checklist
*have you guys done so?
Start sparing a thought for the other party, friends, girlfriends, boyfriends, family and everyone around you. Start thinking for them with thoughts such as "will he/she likes it?" rather than just "i don't like this".
Constantly do the checklist and understand how people around you will feel.
Make this a better place (:
Jovi back to the past 4:30 PM
