Thursday, March 13, 2008
Lets talk a bit more about this magical word
'fate' and
'love'.Instead of searching for the dreamy perfect lover, let love come to you.
Love has to be earned, not yearned.
while reading articles, watching movies and even in reality. i always see phrases like this :
- I should have asked you to marry me earlier
- I should have asked you to be my girlfriend
- I should have confessed
- I should have done better for us
All these 'I should', is it because love is lost when the boat is missed? the fact is, the only way to catch a train is to miss the first one. thats how you learn to treasure.
As i always say, when you experience no sadness or downs, you'll never be able to understand and feel happiness.
I once lost chances, but fate brought us back together walking hand in hand. I thank my blessed life for that. For that, I've learn to treasure and protect the love and the person I love.
To people reading, instead of everyday thinking of how your prince charming/princess will be in future, let love come to you. love hits you naturally at anytime, anywhere. you can't avoid it when it hits you, learn to accept and learn to treasure it.
I'm sure everyone has missed a 'train' before, so be prepared to board the next train when you understand the pain of losing the first. chasing after it when love is lost, is pointless, learn to let go when it's needed.
Letting go may seem hard, but in reality, it's human beings like us that struggles to accept what is in for them.
People fail to accept, they try to change what's happening around them and constantly changing destroys the nature and the uniqueness of one being. A person is around for who he/she is and is extremely unique. Lets look at the finger/thumb prints for an example. When you love someone be it as a friend or a lover, you have to learn to first accept the flaws of this person, and understand their strong points and love them even deeper.
Changes should only exist when a person's turning bad harming him/herself and others around them.
Yes, we all agree that life lies in our own hands and we have control over it
. BUT always remember that it's something magical that is beyond our control that allows us to meet a fated person at one point of time in a specific place. prove me wrong, and start explaining using your whole life on how did you meet your friend, your best friend, your girlfriend, your boyfriend, your wife and your husband.
When things go bad, and people part.. Fret not, it's time to learn new things and experience a new chapter in your life. I can be very sure that when you experience sadness now, happiness will be just round the corner, maybe not too soon, but you'll definitely be experiencing happiness. If you won't believe this statement, think back on when you're feeling sad. Then think again, when did you last 'smile' or 'laugh'?
Excuses such as 'I did not laugh from my heart' are the worst lies ever. When you laugh, be it just one second or a minute laughter, your mind is all filled with happy thoughts, thats why you laugh!
Happiness can never be measured, it may be something small/big that makes you happy. Now, learn to keep these happiness in your heart so that you can think back on these memories and smile at it,
BUT not to live by it.
Always stay strong and never feel depressed! As long as you remember, sadness and happiness are always side by side, so do understand that when you experience one of them, the other will also happen. The opposite way of what i mentioned on top would be when you experience happiness, you'll then feel the pain of sadness.
So stay strong everyone, no matter what life brings you, always remember that you have control over certain decisions, make these decisions fast as the 'train' will not be waiting forever.
I hope people who read this, will feel happy once again =)
THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ABOUT LIFE, IS TO KNOW WHAT DO YOU WANT IN LIFE, AND WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE, EARN IT NOT YEARN FOR IT.
p/s: I love my baby girl <3
Jovi back to the past 6:24 AM
